A Toast 2 Wealth

One of the reasons why the television show Cheaters gets high ratings, is because there are many unhappy people who suspect their lovers or spouses cheating on them in everyday life.  Cheaters is extremely popular and it will be on television for a very long time.  Women have always been just as guilty as men when it comes to cheating.  Men and women who cheat do not have any fear of getting caught, because they are not controlled by their hearts and minds, they allowed lust to control their decisions and if that means going to so far to have an affair with someone very close to their lover or spouse, then they will do it.  Those who cheat do not have any limits of who they will or will not sleep with, because they constantly yearn experiencing an orgasm.  Your true test in life is being able to forgive a cheating love mate and move on with your life.  You will not ever be able to enjoy your life unless you know how to forgive him or her.  This mandatory spiritual law is, we must forgive anyone who has hurt us, no matter what they have done to or against us.  Each and everyone of us is not excused from obeying the spiritual law of forgiveness, even if the person who are in love with cheats on us. It is unhealthy not to forgive and even if you think it feels good to hold a grudge against your cheating lover or spouse, it is not good for you.  No matter how much the person you are in love with has hurt you or even the person they slept with, you may know or may not know, be good to yourself and forgive them.  No one is exempt for enduring betrayal of a lover or spouse who cheats on us.  You may ask, why?  Simply, because people do foolish things, no matter what damage it may do to themselves or any one else.

People who cheat on the ones they claim to really love are lustful type of individuals.  Remember lust was mentioned above? Lust is the most devious trait of a human being and has been around since the beginning of man.  Lust can be controlled and people make a choice to act on it.  When you hear people who are caught cheating say, “I couldn’t control myself.”  They are lying, everyone has the capability of controlling themselves.  Lust starts with our thoughts and then, if you desire to actually experience what you envision is your thoughts, most likely you would cheat without any guilt or shame until after you have took action.  People who cheat can become attics.  They are very similar to drug attics or those who are hooked on alcohol.  If they do not learn to tame their thoughts, they will begin to allow their feelings to control their actions, instead of using their minds to control themselves.  They will never be happy until they admit they have been wrong and desire to change, this is the same sickness as any other sort of attic.

Those who constantly cheat on their lover or spouse could be identified as a nymphomaniac, those who are addicted to sex.  Realize that your boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife are at health risk and because of it, you cannot continue your relationship with them, because you could get an STD (sexually transmitted disease), he or she is not worth your life.  Be smart enough to love yourself so much, you would rather be safe than sorry later when you are diagnosed with a sexually transmitted disease of any sort, which could be deadly.  Little does your lover know at the time they are cheating, they could be at risk of shortening their own life, because they are careless of who they are having sex with and may have multiple partners.  You have to be the smarter one and let them go, because they are dangerous who are carelessly unaware of what risk they are causing through their mischief, whether it be a sexually transmitted disease or physical violence.  Your lover or spouse can cause so much trauma in your life, stress can also put you at health risk.  This shows you how cheating people who happen to be African American are controlled my their lustful thoughts, they never even think of being the highest statistics of HIV/AIDS cases.  They would rather enjoy their lascivious explorations, instead of doing what is right and most of them want to actually not use a condom, but desire to actually enjoy their sexual pleasures and by any means necessary.  This is why it is so very important to forgive your cheating lover or spouse, they do not care about their body and desire to be ultimately aroused with no fear or regret.  Later on, they most likely will have to pay a price for not only hurting you, but hurting themselves.  No matter how millions of people have died of AIDS or any other STD, they never even give it a thought to control their way of thinking, but would rather accept the myth that they would never be a statistic and the worse could never happen to them.

Many husbands and wives may stay together for the sake of the children, but if you are unhappy, it is not good to remain in your marriage.  Believe it or not, it is better to divorce, because you maybe at health risk and many times your bad health will affect your children.  They will just have to learn how to accept life as it is because there are people who cannot remain faithful to their partners for their own selfish reasons, moving on in life is the best option in most situations.   Your children must also understand that you have to be happy and it is most definitely better to be safe and because of any sort of sexually transmitted disease that could kill, it is better to enjoy both parents a part than together in most situations.  Years ago, spouses could use the reason of children to stay together, but time has changed as sexually transmitted diseases came to haunt us and even love triangles could kill.

Do you love yourself?  Do you love yourself more than the person you are in love with? Hopefully, you responded yes to both questions, because many times people who are in love with a cheater are the most unhappiest people and never will experience happiness, because they choose to love their lover or spouse more than they do themselves.  Realize this fact, just because they may look good to you, does not mean they are good for you.  Their promiscuity is hazardous to your health.  If your lover or spouse does not care about themselves, that is their prerogative, but do not allow there careless actions have power of you.  You must care about yourself so much, you are willing to walk away for good and enjoy your life, the way it was meant to be.  If you have watched, the television show Cheaters, sometimes, you possibly have seen lovers and spouses easily forgive those who have cheated on them and automatically accept them back into their lives, after they accept their apology.  Although, it is healthy to forgive, it is not always healthy to easily trust your cheating lover or spouse, because not only will they have power to hurt you again, they will put you at a much worse health risk than you probably are unknowingly in.  The ones who are smart to walk away from their cheating lover or spouse is smart, but they may not always forgive.  You maybe protecting yourself from more pain if you walk away, but make sure you forgive the person, because un-forgiveness leads still can cause you to be a very unhealthy person.  Always forgive, although it is smart to let go of your lover or spouse who has cheated on you with another person.  When you are bitter against a cheating lover or spouse, you are at risk for any sort of fatal illness or cancer, because all the years of stress you refuse to release.

How can you forgive your cheating boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife? Again, love yourself so much not to allow other control your life.  When you are bitter and hold grudges, you are allowing someone else to take charge over your life.  Any memories of a cheating lover or spouse should automatically be released as soon as you discover who who they really are, a cheating individual who allows lust to control their thoughts.  You should never allow their choice to be a dishonest promiscuous  person destroy your life and steal your happiness.  A lot of people who passed away with cancer or any sort of fatal disease are no longer alive, because they failed to forgive.   They allowed a bad memory of a cheating lover or spouse dominate their future.  You could have all the finer things life has to offer you, but if you do not learn how to forgive, you may not enjoy all the benefits.  The question is how to do it?  Even if you tell them without any ire words, inform them of your forgiveness and refuse to think about it ever again.  Buy them a gift as a symbol of forgiveness, then just simply keep living your life without them, this is a good way to letting go of the past and easing yourself from all of the stress you do not have to endure.  It maybe difficult at first, but you have got to do it, if you desire to be happy in life.  If you ever want to learn how to forgive, you must do whatever it takes to actually do it.  When you decide to forgive anyone, it is an act of faith and faith takes action.  Do not just say you are going to forgive while you are still hating the individual, actually do it.

Taking the necessary steps to forgive a cheating lover or spouse may not seem easy, but it is possible.  When you forgive your cheating partner, what you are doing is releasing all the anguish in your life.  Their careless choice to be promiscuous should never be a health factor in your life, whether if it is stress, an STD or strife with them or whomever they had sex with.  You should always forgive them, because not only will you help them realize such a courageous person they lost, but they will also recognize they value of a relationship.